For many first-year Students also know as
Freshers, the University may be their first experience living away from home
for an extended period of time. It is a definite break from home. The
individual's usual sources of support are no longer present to facilitate
adjustment to the unfamiliar environment. Here are tips for students which may
provide realistic expectations concerning living arrangements and social life
on campus.
* The first few weeks on campus can be a lonely
period. There may be concerns about making friends. When new students look
around, it may seem that everyone else is self-confident and socially
successful. The reality is that everyone is having the same concerns but
staying or visiting friends you knew from home on campus may be very helpful in
this time of loneness until you are able to make good friends around your
hostel according to Samuel Ogaga Egbo, a graduate from the Institute of Science
Laboratory Technology, Delta State University, Abraka.* Meaningful, new relationships should not be expected to develop overnight. It took a great deal of time to develop intimacy in high school friendships; the same will be true of intimacy in university friendships.
* Increased personal freedom can feel both wonderful and frightening. New Students/Freshers can come and go as they choose with no one to "hassle" them. At the same time, things are no longer predictable. The strange environment with new kinds of procedures and new people can create the sense of being on an emotional roller-coaster. This is normal and to be expected.
* Living with roommates can present special, sometimes intense, problems. Negotiating respect of personal property, personal space, sleep, and relaxation needs can be a complex task. The complexity increases when a roommate is older than you as a fresher or as been in the university before you as the fresher, when roommates are of different ethnic/cultural backgrounds with very different values but communicating one's legitimate needs calmly, listening with respect to a roommate's concerns, and being willing to compromise to meet each other's most important needs can promote resolution of issues.
* It is unrealistic to expect that roommates will be best friends. Roommates may work out mutually satisfying living arrangements, but the reality is that each may tend to have his or her own circle of friends and when this happens, you as a fresher should try as much as possible to be acquainted to your roommates friends but maintaining your morals and integrity inculcated into from home.
* University classes are a great deal more
difficult than secondary school class. There are more reading assignments, and
the exams and papers cover a greater amount of material. Lecturers expect
students to do more work outside the classroom. In order to survive, the
student must take responsibility for his or her actions. This means the student
needs to follow the course outlines and keep us with the readings. The student
must do the initiating. If a class is missed, it is up to the student to borrow
lecture notes from someone who was present. If the student is having difficulty
with course work, he or she needs to ask for help for his/her predecessors--ask
to do extra work, request an appointment with an academic advisor, or sign up
for tutoring or other academic-skills training.
*A new student/fresher must be focused and
always remember the reason why he/she is in the campus, never to forget where
he/she is from (family background) and keep in mind the goal he/she has set. Every
human is born with the potentials to succeed irrespective of where he/she came
from –Tope A. Banjo.
*A New student/Fresher finding it hard to cope
with his/her new environment two weeks before the first semester examination is
advised to seek the services of a counselor in the Counseling Services office
of their respective institutions.
Edited and Published by Publicfact with
contribution from Delta state university Facebook page.